Time - Ally, villain or coincidence?

How much importance does time and space hold in your life?
It's true 'time and tide waits for nobody', but does that mean you should be defined by them?



Many of us feel we were born in the wrong place at the wrong time or at least either of the two. Is it because we could have had a better life, if we could alter it?



But would it have changed your life entirely? Or by a mere fraction due to the centennial differences in atmosphere and industrial growth?



Would you let time time decide something for you in your life?
Could you just let it happen and call it destiny?



Would you not want to travel back in time, if something you wanted doesn't occur?
Or curse time for the bad things it led you to?



We cannot control time either. The only way we can get hold of time is to get hold of our self and apply it according to the time available.



We cannot choose the time and space of our birth. But what we can do is, choose where to spend the living days of ours in the way we want. If not you, who can decide it for you?



Each and every second of time is repetition of the previous instances, but we don't let it repeat with our actions or with constant changes.



Fate and destiny, are two words we turn to when time strikes us with unwanted blows.
You may not be able control everything, but the things you can control can create the environment you want to live in.



Time a villain, ally or coincidence? At many difficult times in your life, time would have helped you heal the deepest wounds.



Random it may occur, but then would it fit your reckoning? Or to be more precise; would you fit in that abstraction by so called fate?



Call time a passing fancy and observe the patterns, you can understand it. You cannot alter it but you can learn to embrace it.

Happiness, A Choice!

Have you ever woke up and thought, "Oh no, today is going to be a bad day for me!" or "God, why me?"

Well if you have, you might not be the only one to feel so. It can be due to various reasons. Maybe you have a due-date and you haven't completed your work. It may be due to disappointing results. It can even be  because of spilling the bad news to people you love.

 Many of us think happiness is a feeling we have when we see the things we love or be with the people we love or acquire the things we love. What we don't understand is that, it is a decision  you take in life. Have you ever wondered why the bad things only happen to you and the people around you are comparatively happy and they seem to be free of all the problems you are facing? Well, everybody has good times and bad times. There isn't anybody escaping the bad times in life. If not now, later they will go through similar phase (or even worse) in life. But that doesn't mean they have to sulk and whine about it while they are at it. 

Not all happy people are problem free, they just merely overcome their emotions. Never let your emotions get hold of you, get hold of your emotions (irrespective of joy, despair, anger, fear, disgust etc). All the emotions together makes us human and it is essential for us. But as you understand life deeply you'd see that all emotions are required for expressing oneself but emotions aren't that much important as we think it is. It will add flavour to ones expressiveness, but it shouldn't alter him/her by adding flavour to the person.

Remember,

"Happiness is a journey and not a destination!"

Have a happy and wonderful day! Cheers.